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  *This post has Affiliate links and Ads* The Eternal Search for A Soul Mate "The First Law of Relationships: Nothing is guaranteed" - Sugarwhite "...To love is to risk not ((being loved in return.  To hope is to risk pain. To try is to risk failure. But risk must be taken because the greatest hazard in my life is to risk nothing ." - Leo Buscaglia Relationships Beyond Disney Fantasy Life is full of risks. Relationships too are full of uncertainty and unknowns. The culture teaches us to search the universe for the ideal mate who will ride with us into the sunset. We are bombarded with this ideology from the time we become conscious of romantic love. As a result, our romantic lives become what seems more like a Google search for the ideal companion. Just like Google, we punch in a few basic parameters and the algorithm provides us with the perfect match. But Alas! This ideal perfect person does not exist. We will inevitably be forced to make a reasonable compromise w...

                                     Sometimes Its Just Better To Let Go **This article has affiliate links and ads** Introduction One of the hardest things you can do in life is to end an intimate relationship with someone to whom you were once close to or maybe even loved.  It's such a tragedy and one of life's most an unpleasant situations. You have tried so hard and yet it has come to an end despite all your best efforts. This situation can arise for a wide variety of reasons but the bottom line is that the relationship can no longer meet the needs of one or both parties. All available options for salvaging it have been exhausted. Sadly the last and final option is to part ways for good. I'm such a fan of getting things right the first time, especially when it comes to relationship. Relationships are so hard to establish and maintain. They take so much of our physical and emotiona...

The serenity to accept... Christianity has done much for mankind despite its failures. It is often criticized for not living up to its high ideals. Was it ever expected that Christianity would solve all the problems of man kind?  Our Lord Jesus thought better of this approach. His philosophy was never to seek a resolution for every human failing. He never attempted to resolve every case of wrong doing or neglect.  He understood that the greatest battles would be fought, won and lost in hearts and souls of men. There is no fix-all and end-all equation in our daily existence. Life is a constant daily struggle. I pray "God give me the serenity to accept things I cannot change, to change things I can and the wisdom to know the difference"An individual is only powerless when he chooses to be. Everybody is gifted with freedom of choice which is the human will.  Lets not blame people or institutions. This ancient prayer demonstrates how far we have wandered in expecting solution...

How To Live With A Man 101 How To Live With A Man 101: A Crash Course For Women Do you feel like you and your man are on different planets? Do you struggle to communicate, compromise, and connect with him? Do you wonder how other couples manage to make it work? Are you tired of fighting with your man over trivial things? Do you wish you could understand him better and make your relationship work? If you answered yes to any of these questions, then you need to read How To Live With A Man 101: A Crash Course For Women . This ebook is the essential guide to understanding and living with your man. It will teach you 10 Basic Tips to improve your relationship. These tips will give you insights to help strengthen your relationship such as: How to stay in harmony and avoid misunderstandings How to appreciate his differences and highlight his strengths How to avoid unnecessary conflicts and live peacefully How to spice up your intimacy and keep the spark alive How to support his goals and dream...

10 Rules For Living With A Man 10 Rules For Living With A Man is the 1st installment in the Cohabiting Handbook Series which is a series of light-hearted guides for females who are living with male partners.  Visit my Store Front Here Each guide lists several helpful suggestions on how to improve the relationship between two unmarried couples who find themselves living together under the same roof.  Cohabitation is now an established urban phenomenon as a large majority of couples live together for years to get married. Sadly the fact is that research studies show a large majority of these relationships do not end in marriage.  A major reason for this is that young couples are largely unprepared for prolonged cohabitation with the opposite sex especially where there is no safety net provided by marriage as an institution. This ignorance of the basic elements of relationships creates tensions and deep cracks. Soon a bubbling and excited couple in the beginning of cohabitat...